Saturday, April 26, 2008

A slighting different music Vibe

I was recently contacted by two different brides, Ginger & Crisette that were interested in doing something slighting different with the dinner/cocktail music as well as dancing. They wanted a Contemporary Urban type vibe without it being too strong.

The style of music that works well for this is known as neosoul and its perfect for weddings. I actually loved neosoul back in my clubs days and I will jump at chance to integrate this type music genre into a wedding.

Here are few songs that will make for a great Urban Contemporary wedding sound track:

The Roots & Eryka Badu - You Got Me
Mos Def - Beauty in the Dark
Jill Scott - Long Walk
Jill Scott - Golden
Eyka Badu - Love of My Life
Common -I Want You
Floetry - Say Yes
Goaple - Closer
D'Angelo - Crusin
Les Nubians - Makeda

Mix the above up with some oldschool R&B songs like Surface, Al Green, Jodeci & Marvin Gaye and you will have the perfect mix that is cool, upbeat, and soulful.

I try to make each event unique based on the input from my clients. The music is really not about the DJ but about the couple and the vibe they want for their wedding. I good wedding DJ will always customize the music selections for each wedding through planning & good communication.

When planning your wedding think about the type of music that will help personalize your sound track to your reception.

Saturday, February 2, 2008

Tips on Table Names

Personalize your wedding day and make your guests feel special by offering more than just an insignificant table number.

Whether you are assigning seats, reserving tables, or not, you can still name your tables. Your guests will have a sense of belonging, team spirit, and connection with everyone at their table. Group dynamics are improved, and your wedding will be that much more fun. Name your tables by:

Places you have visited while dating
Places you will visit during your honeymoon
Popular honeymoon destinations
Names of famous married couples,
Names of your favorite sporting teams
Names of your favorite songs, albums, artists
Names of your favorite movies, actors, stars
City \ State \ Country names where guests have traveled from
Romantic words - Love, Joy, Cherish, Serenity

My favorite! Names of famous beaches & surf spots in Hawaii. Be sure to put your ”party animals” on the” Banzai Pipeline” table.

If you must do numbers, use numbers with significance, and you can even make a game of it -

452=Number days you dated before the proposal
2=Number of dates before your first kiss
6=Number of pets
2381=Bride's birth date

Game idea: Using just the table numbers only, ask the guests to guess what their table number represents!

For more ideas on how to make your wedding fun, unique & entertaining visit my blog at: http://troymichaeldj.blogspot.com/ or call or send me an email anytime.

Happy wedding Planning!

Tips to Make Your Reception Unique & Personalized!

Chances are you and your guests have been to many wedding receptions in the past. Troy Michael will work with you to express your style & personality into all aspect of your celebration. Here are some easy ways to make your reception stand out.

Don't Just Enter, MAKE an Entrance-
The difference can be subtle or more pronounced but it is important that you, in some way, visually acknowledge your guests as part of your Grand Entrance. This can be done by simply pausing to let them get a good look at you while they snap a picture, waving back at them or perhaps taking a bow or giving high fives. Now you have included your guests in the joy of the moment by making them PART of your entrance!

Pick a Unique & Personalized Entrance Song-
Your favorite sport team’s theme song, A song from your favorite movie or TV show, A favorite dance or love song.
Come up with an Entrance Song that is personal to you as a couple. One rule of thumb is- the higher the energy of the song, the better. This applies whether it's Classical, Rock, R&B, Hip Hop, Swing, Top-40, etc.

Saying "Thank You & Welcome”-
Most couples say their thank you speech at the end of the reception but the best time to do this is really at the very start of the reception. A simple "thank you" & “welcome” speech to your guests right after your entrance can really set the tone for the rest of the evening. It the perfect time to do this as everyone attention will be focused on you both of you, You will be “in the moment” an so will your guest. Publicly expressing your appreciation & love for each other and your guest is one of the classiest and most heartfelt things you can do.

Change The Order-
Often the First Dance comes after the dinner. But there's no rule that says you can't do it right after your entrance. The Best Man's toast can be at the beginning of the meal... or later, towards the end of it. Just because you throw your bouquet doesn't mean you have to do the garter toss. There are no rules when it comes to the formalities of a reception.

Choreograph Your First Dance-
A choreographed First Dance is always a special treat for you and your guests. A Waltz, Aswing danc, Tango or even a Hip-hop routine is a great way to personalize your reception. You may need to take some lessons prior to your "performance". The pay off is creating an unforgettable moment for you and your guests. A moment that never fails to get a great response from all in attendance.

That Sounds Different-
You have an opportunity to create a unique experience for your guests from the time they first step foot in your reception. It is important that your cocktail/dinner music have it's own "sound’ that will set the right tone and atmosphere that will reflect your style & personality.

Use Creative Lighting-
The right lighting can add color and depth to any room. Colored beams of uplighting on the walls, or a monogram projection on the dance floor are some ways to create a special atmosphere. Well planned lighting has a dramatic effect on the look and feel of your reception.

Avoid Musical Cliches-
Party songs that have been played at every wedding can be replaced with more inventive & tasteful choices. Those played-out tunes like "The Electric Slide", "Chicken Dance", "YMCA”, & "Celebration” can be avoided to create a more distinctive musical atmosphere that reflects your style and personality.

Friday, September 14, 2007

Sunset Pictures

Sunsets in Hawaii are incredible. Many couples will want to have pictures taken at sunset. Make sure you plan this out with your photographer, coordinator and DJ so that the sunset pictures do not impact your timeline.

To help plan this out look up the sunset time of your special day at:
http://www.sunrisesunset.Com/calendar.asp. Make sure you add the sunset pictures as an event to your timeline so that the reception will be smooth flowing and on time.

Saturday, August 18, 2007

Troy Michael's Top First Dance Songs:

I got ask to help a bride pick a first dance song so I thought I would share some of my all time favorites here on my Blog. Troy Michael's Top First Dance Songs:

  • Better Together - Jack Johnson
  • All I Want is You - U2
  • By Your Side - Sade
  • The Way You Look Tonight -Michael Buble
  • At Last - Etta James
  • Lost in this moment - Big & Rich
  • Keith Urban- Memories of us
  • This very moment - K-Ci & Jo-Jo
  • More Than Love by Los Lonely Boys
  • Spend My Life With You - Eric Bennet
  • All I Want is You - U2
  • By Your Side - Sade
  • It Had to Be You - Frank Sinatra

Thursday, July 19, 2007

Susan & James Kelly Wedding

Susan & James Kelly Wedding

Location: Lanikuhonua
Photographer: Chrissy Lambert
Coordinator: Laura Lewis Parasol Events

Susan & James wanted a fun & refined Hawaiian Style Destination Wedding. To kick things into high gear the Bridal party was introducted with Hawaii Five-0 Theme as they "surfed" their way into the reception. Susan & James opts to skip the bouquet & garter toss and go straight into dancing after the dinner service was complete.

Grand Entrance: Hawaii 5-0
First Dance: La Mer
Lei Presentation: Hanohano KoPikake - Kealii Reiche
Combined Father/Daugther & Mother/Son Dance: What a Wonderful World - LouieArmstrong
Bridal Party Performance: Aint No Mountain High Enough - Marvin Gaye
Last Dance: New York New York - Frank Sinatra



Monday, July 16, 2007

Hawaii Bride & Groom Magazine Tips on Hiring the Perfect DJ

I was asked by the publisher of Hawaii Bride & Groom Magazine to submit an article for the "Tips from the Expert" section for the upcoming issue. Here is my article:

Tips On Hiring The Perfect DJ.

HIRING THE RIGHT DJ CAN BE A VERY IMPORTANT AND DIFFICULT DECISION. Your DJ will play a critical role in insuring the overall success of your reception and will be a key factor in setting the right atmosphere for your once in a life time event.

A common misconception is that that all DJs do the same thing. DJs have their own specialty, style, music and level of professionalism. When looking for a DJ, start by looking for one that specializes in weddings. A DJ that performs for clubs, radios stations, or proms may not be prepared to handle the formalities of a wedding. A good DJ will offer to meet with you to go over your needs and their experience.

Make sure the DJ you are talking with will be the actual DJ performing at your reception. Many DJ companies book multiple events on the same night and sub-contract a multitude of DJs with varying levels of skill. Be careful of “bait & switch tactics”. Avoid any last minute surprises by making sure you evaluate the individual DJ and not just the DJ Company.

Experience is essential. Avoid hiring a discount DJ that lacks experience to save money. An experienced wedding DJ will do much more than just play music. Ask the about their experience in weddings, how they insure the success of your reception, and what makes them unique. Get to know their style and approach to make sure it fits what you want for your wedding.

References. Any skilled wedding DJ should be able to provide you with list of client references. A reference list will tell you how frequent the DJ is performing; the type of event the DJ performs for as well the venues the DJ frequents. Be sure to call and verify the references and ask about the DJ’s style & professionalism. Make sure the references are for the actual DJ you are working with not just for the DJ company.

Professional Affiliations. The most professional of wedding DJs will belong to wedding, catering & entertainment Trade organizations. This displays the DJs willingness to constantly improve, & network with other wedding professionals. Organizations will have strict code of conduct with high standards in work ethics and professionalism.

Always get a contract. The contract should indicate the specific DJ you have chosen along with the agreed performance date, times and fees. Read the contract carefully and understand cancellation policies, payment procedures and all fees.

Hawaii’s most sought after wedding DJs get booked from 6 to 18 months in advance, so start looking early in your planning process. It’s your day and you will want it to be fun, refined, and personalized. Make sure you are completely confident and comfortable with the DJ that you hire so you can enjoy a fun and stress free celebration.